It happens with almost all of us that something undesirable happens and we start finding reasons to blame things on other people , situation or circumstances. It somehow gives us a kind of consolation. We think of so many reasons as why it happened to us and then we stick to couple of them that we find most convincing. We often love to think and talk about our victim story. Lets see how our victim self thinks and talks -
– I cannot find a job because job market is bad.( ==> I will not find a job)
– I am not getting promotion at work because my manager doesn’t like me. (==>I will not get a promotion)
– I am unhappy in my life because my girl friend dumped me and I lost my job.(==> I will stay unhappy)
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Its been more than one year since I posted anything. I am sorry for not writing for such a long time. A lot of things happened in the last one year on both professional and personal front (everything for good :). It was a good learning phase and I would love to share with you my learnings. I have been thinking for a long time to resume blogging since it gives me immense happiness but laziness kept me procrastinate it forever. I used to get so many emails from people who get inspired reading posts from this blog and everytime I used to think of resuming again . Yesterday I got an email from a 19 yrs old girl who read this blog three months back and was going through a very tough phase in her life. She said she didn’t want to write to me until she could apply those things in her life. Yesterday she wrote ” Your blog made a huge impact on my life. I request that you continue writing as it might affect others life too in a positive way.” It was an extremely touching email and I could not stop myself from not writing. My sincere thanks to that 19 yrs old girl and all of you who wanted me to write again. I will try my best to be active this time.
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