I have seen so many ppl saying ” I make my own destiny” , ” If you cant predict future, invent future” . These quotes look so impressive but is it true ? Can you really make your destiny ? Infact can you even change your destiny ? . I often wonder if there is something called destiny and can we control/change it as per our needs and answer I get back from myself is “NO” . I might be wrong and yes it depends on one’s perspective too.
I dont believe in the following
* Just sit idle and expect to get something great because its in your destiny
* Leave your house unlocked, nobody would steal anything because its not destined to happen
* Jump from a moutain and you wont get hurt because its not destined to happen
* Dont study for your entrance exam and you will clear it because its destined to happen
But I do believe in the following
* You wont sit idle even if others force you too if u have to get something great
* You wont leave your house unlocked, because theft is not destined to happen coz of your carelessness
* You wont jump from a mountain, because you are not destined to get hurt by jumping from a mountain
* You would definitely study for your entrance because you are destined to clear it
For all those who believe that ” there is nothing like destiny and if at all its there then you can control it ” , how do you control/change destiny in following cases
* You want to become a doctor, you gave your best shot, dropped for three consecutive years but still you couldn’t clear it. Not that you were not capable of getting it but some unfortunate things happened like in one year mom died, second year dad had a fracture and in the third year papers got leaked.
* You wanted to become a pilot but you lose your vision in one accident.
* You love someone so much , marry him after going againt the whole world and that person dies second day after the marrige while going to his office.
* You want something very badly but cant get it because of some unfortunate reasons
Most of the things I mentioned above are not fake. They do happen. So wat do people mean when they say ” You can make/change your destiny ” ?. I think all of these are in your circle of concern but outside circle of influence